IN THIS LESSON

The need to be right can be a powerful force, often keeping us locked in cycles of argument, frustration, and defensiveness. When we focus on proving a point rather than seeking understanding, we limit our capacity for growth and connection. This tendency is closely linked to the Dunning-Kruger effect and the confirmation bias, where we overestimate our knowledge while remaining blind to the vastness of what we have yet to learn.

More than just a debate with others, the urge to be right is often a reflection of an internal struggle—a desire for validation, certainty, or control. Yet, true wisdom comes not from convincing others but from deepening our own understanding. When we release the need to prove a point, we shift our attention from external validation to self-exploration, humility, and openness. In doing so, we create space for authentic dialogue, learning, and inner peace.

This lesson invites you to examine where in your life you feel the need to defend or assert your perspective. By letting go of this attachment, you open yourself to curiosity, deeper awareness, and meaningful connections with others.